Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Benihana



We made our annual trip to Benihanas. We got there just as they were shutting down for an hour before they re-open for dinner. So, we had the place to ourselves. Thank goodness. Not much I can say about the pictures. It is my family...I suppose I love them regardless!!

Stitches and Leiderhosen



Oh Christian!! That boy is a walking disaster. John took the kids to the park (notice JOHN was in charge) and Justin was playing with Christian on the teeter totter (notice JUSTIN was involved!). Who knows what happened but all I know is Christian jumped off and Justin jumped on and stitches were needed! He was sedated (thankfully) and had 7 stitches put in. Watching him wake up was hysterical! He thought we all had 2 heads. John and I stayed with him the whole time and watched them put in the stitches. It was great. They have already been removed and he is fine. He left the heart leads and IV bandage on as long as he could. We think he was getting sympathy from the girls at school.
Justin had a report due on his family heritage. I pulled out John's old Leiderhosen hoping it would fit Justin ... I was gonna make him wear it at school. Darn! It only fit Christian. He looked so cute!! He is an awful close replica of John. We should have named him Little John.

Decorating




We got all our decorating done the weekend after Thanksgiving. It is so much nicer and easier to put lights on the house when it isn't snowing! Jilliann was amazed at all the lights and was very interested in the angel that lit up and moved. The tree now has NO decorations on the bottom half thanks to the baby. The top of the tree has tons of them. I cant remember the last time our tree went unscathed for a whole season. Some day...

Thanksgiving 2007




Here we all are at the park for Thanksgiving. It was a beautiful day full of good food, family and amazing weather. We are so blessed to spend another Thanksgiving with my Grandparents (88 and 91) and lots of cousins. We had a great time.

3 men


How many of you can say you slept with 3 men in your bed last night?? See how much room was left for me (and Jilliann at 6am).

Friday, November 02, 2007

Halloween 2007


This Halloween brought out some scary possibilities. First Austin went "GOTH". Oh geez! We sprayed his hair black and he wore all kinds of freaky jewelry with tattoo sleeves. I pray this isn't a view into his high school years! Yikes!!

Justin and Christian were each a Power Ranger. I have no idea which one but they were happy.

Jilliann went as a chick again this year. The outfit still fit and it was cute so I was happy to get 2 years out of it. We got a lot of candy and I am sure I will gain 10 pounds. Oh well, fat and happy!



Thursday, November 01, 2007

SURPRISE!!


Guess who showed up?? Last Tuesday my Mom called and asked if we wanted to go out to dinner. Being one to never say "no" to eating out we met at Logan's Steakhouse. We were all sitting around when the waiter came up behind me and asked what we wanted to drink. I turned to speak to him and it was Andrew. I couldn't believe it. I was so shocked. The boys were thrilled and all over him from the start. What a great surprise. He will be hanging out here with us for a few months while on leave. He doesn't have to go back to Iraq any time soon so we are thankful for that. Thank you for all the prayers and support as he was deployed. We are so blessed and thankful to have him home safe and sound.

Oh Yeah



Oh yeah...I forgot to mention that Kent and John were there too. Afterall, I needed someone to escort me to the wedding until Jensen realized he loved me and needed me!

My Fantasy Wedding

My cousin Evan got married this last Saturday (Oct 27) in Temecula, Ca. I would like to say the wedding was beautiful and blah blah blah but really it was all about meeting my true love, my soul mate, my new husband to be....Jensen Ackles. He is an actor who was on Days of Our Lives as Eric Brady, he had a role on Smallville and is currently co-starring in the WB show called Supernatural. DeeDee, my sister-in-law, and I stalked him all night like the psycho people that we are. He was gracious and kind and stood by as we took tons of pictures of him. Poor guy.



Jensen and I during our first encounter. I have crazy stalker eyes don't I?? John says I look drunk but I swear I didn't drink at all. They are just eyes of love and he doesn't recognize that!

DeeDee got all up in our love so here she is in our future engagement picture.
He didn't know I was stalking him from the other side too! Poor guy is in more pictures then he realized.
Here is is expressing his undying love for me. Really! I know it looks like he is telling me to stay the "h%ll" away from him but he isn't. He is trying to get me to meet him back in his private villa later.

Monday, October 01, 2007

Noses to Nummies




My kids are so weird. Christian showed up on Friday from school with his nose and forehead all scratched up. I never got a call from his teacher or the nurse so I had no idea. According to him he did an awesome somersault off the swings. Apparently his landing was less then perfect but he was proud.
Here is Jilliann doing what she does best....eating the dog food. She LOVES it. I brought the food downstairs so Kodiak wouldn't have to got upstairs since he is hurt. However, Jilliann thought that I did it for her. She proceeded to dump out all the dog food then rolled in it, danced on it and ate more then I care to admit. At least she will have a shiny coat for the winter!

Lucky Dog





No, really! Kodiak is the luckiest dog ever. Last night he got the sh*t scared out of him (literally) and he saw his life flash before his eyes (literally)! We were all outside saying goodbye to my Mom and George after they had dinner here. The dog was out with us too. He ran across the street which he normally does and was sniffing around the neighbors yard when a truck came flying around the corner on our street. I knew the truck would not stop if Kodiak ran out so I yelled to Kodiak to "stay". That was the dumbest thing I could have done because of course he ran right out in front of the truck. I knew he was going to get hit so I turned my head and shut my eyes. Through the shrieks and screams of my Mother I heard a huge thump and knew Kodiak was a goner. When I turned around I saw him running down the other end of the street. According to John, who watched the whole thing, the dog got hit on the side and went flying through the air 25 feet and crashed down. As soon as he hit the ground he struggled to get on his feet and took off. I found the dog a few minutes later and brought him home. He was walking fine and from what I could see he had no blood on him. John checked him out to feel for broken bones but couldn't feel any. We were worried about him dying from internal injuries during the night so I took him to a 24 hour emergency vet. It cost $100 but I needed to know if he was going to die. The vet was amazed that besides him being covered in poop and a few minor scrapes he seemed fine. We brought him home and he seems okay. He is walking slow today and is obviously stiff and sore but otherwise himself. He has been wagging his tail and getting up to greet everyone when they got home. I don't know how he survived. It was horrible. Oh...the people who hit him stopped and were as mortified as we were. They gave us their number and want daily updates on his condition until he is all better. Guess they wont speed down our street again!

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

A Visit from Uncle Doug






Not long after Kathy left Uncle Doug (my brother) came to visit with his 2 year old daughter Laci. He happened to have a week off of work so at the last minute (2 days before) we booked a ticket and they came out. Unfortunately, Shelia did not have off of work so she graciously let them come out even though it was tough on her. We surprised all the family including Mom. It was a quick 5 day trip (that was all Shelia could stand for them to be away) but we had lots of fun. The boys loved Uncle Doug and thought Laci was great. Jilliann and Laci played and fought like sisters. Laci would love on Jilliann non-stop and often choke Jilliann in the process of hugging her neck. It was so cute!

A visit from Aunt Kathy


Double rainbow




Kathy came all the way from Alaska to stand next to an Alaskan brown bear in Sedona, AZ!




Aunt Kathy came to visit (John's Sister). She flew out for a week from Alaska to hot Arizona. Her goal was to hang out by the pool and tan as much as possible. Man, she did great. She left tan but probably not very relaxed. The kids had fun seeing her and she was shocked at how much they all grew. John took some time off and we drove up to Sedona while the kids were in school. It is beautiful up there and much cooler. While she was here we had a few storms and an amazing double rainbow. The boys loved having someone to go in the pool with all the time and Christian got even DARKER laying out with Kathy. In Sedona we got all the kids suckers with scorpions in them but Jilliann is the only one that would eat it. The boys were freaked out. AHH...to be young and dumb again!

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Floors and Divorce





So, we finished the master bathroom floor and the entry/office floor. Yeah, it is done and it looks great but John hates me now. Ok, not really but they were tough projects. We just didn't seem to have any luck on our side with tile changes and wood changes and edging issues and on and on and on. Every step forward we took 5 steps back. After many hours and several nights that lasted till morning we are finally done. I think in a few weeks when we aren't so sore, exhausted and angry at each other we will be really pleased with it all. One thing we have decided is that the rest of the flooring downstairs we are NOT doing ourselves. We are going to have the concrete underlayment acid washed to look like stone or something. I am tired of manual labor. By the way, I am off now to clean the bathrooms. Guess manual labor is in the future for me after all!

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Tile in the Master Bathroom



John and I thought it would be so great to tile the master bathroom. Sure, in theory. This project has been a killer and has taken us almost a month to do. John got really sick and that delayed us then we went back and forth about the tile and ended up returning this stuff and getting 12 inch polished travertine. Then we had to go back and get more because there was such a huge variance that we werent happy so we bought tons of boxes and picked the ones we liked. We finally got it all down and today I am off to touch up the grout and seal it. Sad thing is we are going to lay Pergo downstairs in the entry way and office this weekend.

2nd Day not so good


Well, things at school for Austin did not go so well. The district is trying to change all the special ed stuff and it is not pretty. Here is a letter I sent to everyone I could think of including state officials, senators, district admin and school employees.
Re: Austin Robert Fueller, Anthem Elementary School

To all named above:
I am the Mother of a 13 year old boy that is cognitively impaired with mild mental retardation. I am also a Mother outraged by my sons school and the school district. Because my son fell off an operating room table as an infant and sustained brain damage he is receiving poor educational assistance and being treated as a second class citizen by Anthem Elementary School and particularly its principal Patrick Yennie.
Austin has a complete IEP that includes a one on one aide full time. When he is with his specific resource teacher she is his one on one aide but otherwise he is to have someone with him at all times. He is bullied and laughed at by other students when he is not with an aide. All of these concerns had been addressed at his last IEP meeting and was settled when his aide agreed to stay with him when he was between classes and at lunch.
However, this school year began with major changes. Not only does my son (in 7th grade) now have to switch classes, have 6 new teachers, change clothes for PE and learn a new schedule but he also has to deal with loosing his aide. His aide is still at the school and still wants to be with him but Mr. Yennie has decided he didn’t want them together and changed Austin’s aide. He explained that life is full of changes and although I agree with that statement as a whole, I also believe that some consistency for this type of student makes sense. My son’s type of brain damage makes changes hard for him. I think he has enough change to deal with. I am baffled and outraged as to why Mr. Yennie insisted on doing this.
During “Meet the Teacher” night my husband and I spoke with Mr. Yennie about Austin’s schedule and his aide situation. He stated Austin will have 3-4 aides rotating throughout the day. However, the first day of school it was one aide. When I e-mailed both Mr. Yennie and the intervention specialist with my concerns Mr. Yennie said I needed to speak with the intervention specialist and the intervention specialist said I needed to speak with the resource teacher (his support coordinator). When I spoke to the resource teacher she said she has little to do with picking the aide and all that was done by Mr. Yennie and some obscure person at district office. No one seems to take the initiative to find the answers.
I had a meeting with Mr. Yennie this morning and got a different story then the one told during the teacher night (he had no idea who I was even though I have had countless meetings with him the past 3 years) . Mr. Yennie was rude, condescending and lied straight to my face. I cannot believe that a man in charge of a school would act the way he did. It was completely unprofessional. I am a Mother advocating for her retarded child. I was not angry, I did not threaten him, I voiced my concern and said that as a Mother I know what is best for my child and I want him in a situation where he will learn to his full capacity. Austin’s brain damage will eventually limit his ability to learn and I want him to be pushed to learn as much as he can while he can. His aide from the last year and a half knows how to do that. Austin was on honor roll or principles list every semester last year. His aide knows how to modify his work to get the most out of him, she knows the kids in his classes so she can monitor the bullying issue, she knows how to keep him on task to get the work done. I am at a loss as to why she was placed in another class. Anyone else would take months to learn Austin’s abilities and behaviors thus losing precious time he could be learning.
As a Mother, I know my son. Mr. Yennie stated that as a principle his judgment overrides my parental judgment. I disagree strongly. My son has thrown up these last 2 days before school because of anxiety and nervousness. Why is DVUSD doing this to him?? He has enough adapting to do with a new school year and is at a large disadvantage with his brain damage. I feel Mr. Yennie is punishing ME for being vocal about my son’s education by taking away Austin’s aide. As a final straw Mr. Yennie stated he will not change simply because I want him to, that no one in district will override his decision and that Austin will just have to learn to adapt at some point. I pulled Austin out of school today because as I was leaving Mr. Yennie’s office I saw Austin in PE with no aide and I fear for his safety.
If I cannot rely on the school to educate him according to what is legally his right, how can I rely on the school to protect him? He will not be returning until this is resolved. I want my son to be safe, secure and able to learn in an environment suited to his special needs. I am seeking legal council at this moment. I expect to hear from you soon.

Mr. John Fueller (Ret.MSG/US Army-SF/USFO-D)
Mrs. Bridget K Fueller

1st Day of school



Yeah...the first day of school arrived August 13th. Austin (13) is in 7th grade now, Justin (8) is in 3rd grade and Christian (5) is starting kindergarten. I cant believe they are all in school now. Leaves just Jilliann and I home all day. What will I do?

Saturday, August 11, 2007

Our New Baby




We have a new baby!! We adopted a black/grey tabby kitten from the Humane Society on Tuesday (8/7). He is 4-5 months old. Of course, when we got him they discovered he is sick with an Upper Respiratory Infection so I am having to force feed him food and 2 medicines twice a day. To top that off...John, Austin and Jilliann all have infections too so I am force feeding them medicines too! Oh the joys.
Anyway, the cat is adjusting to our crazy house. Wonder if he thinks being euthanized would have been better! Poor thing had no idea what he was getting when we got him. Oh, Christian wants to say he also got a beta fish named "Cotton Candy". Andrew wanted to name the kitten so he named him "Alla Achba" which means "God wills it"...this is what suicide bombers yell as they blow things up. Nice!! So, we are calling him "Ollie" for short.

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Hours and Hours in the Car




It sounded great to make all these little trips in the car but man was it exhausting. We dealt with the many personalities of Jilliann...crying, laughing, sleeping. Never a dull moment in the car!